gaaaaaah...

so a New Dad has realised that men too cannot Have It All, whatever It All is. When will those writing in newspapers realise that

a) feminism is good for men too as it should mean that both genders can be free to make the choices they wish to - in my mind without hurting others
b) What is 'It All'? What does that mean? Being able to do everything at the expense of others? Surely no-one can have it all - are there enough hours in the day to be all the parent, worker, employee, friend that you really wish you can be? If so - please tell me how.

Or have I missed something again?